I lived this.
Then I cracked it.
I am not a researcher who stumbled onto this niche. I am a woman who spent 7 months in severe pelvic pain, had a hysterectomy three weeks ago, and has been mapping women's pleasure anatomy for 8 years. My authority is built from both sides of the table.
I know what it is to disappear inside your own body.
For 7 months, I lived with severe adenomyosis and endometriosis. Month after month of pain that made intimacy impossible, that hollowed out my sense of self, that turned my body from something I lived in to something I managed.
I know what it is to be a woman who teaches pleasure for a living — and to privately wonder if she will ever feel it again herself. I know the particular shame of that contradiction. I know how quietly devastating it is to go through the motions with a partner while something inside you has gone silent.
I am not telling you this for sympathy. I am telling you this because it is the source of my real authority. Not my training. Not my client numbers. This — the lived, embodied, unglamorous experience of losing and then reclaiming your own body. That is what makes this work different.
600+ bodies.
One obsession.
Before any of this became personal, I spent 8 years building a practice around one question: what does it actually take to return a woman to her own pleasure?
Not manage it. Not cope with the absence of it. Return to it — fully, specifically, in a body that has been through things. Trauma. Surgery. Motherhood. Menopause. The slow erosion of intimacy that happens when a woman stops believing she deserves to feel good.
I built my method across hundreds of 1:1 sessions, in-person intensives, group containers, and retreats. I have held women through their first orgasm after years of numbness. I have watched the nervous system recalibrate in real time.
What I know — that I did not learn from a textbook — is that the body does not forget how to feel. It learns how to protect. And protection, once it is no longer needed, can be undone. That is the work.
Three weeks ago,
I had my
hysterectomy.
Not because I failed at healing. Not because I gave up. Because it was the cleanest decision for my health — and I refuse to pretend that womanhood lives in one organ.
I am currently in recovery. I am also building this program. Those two things are not in conflict — they are the same thing. I am living the transformation I teach, in real time, in public.
This means you will see my recovery on my social channels. The unglamorous parts. The days that are hard. And the moments where something recalibrates and I remember exactly why this work matters.
The foundation
behind the work
20+ years of formal training, clinical practice, and embodied learning. This is not a weekend certification. It is a career built from the ground up — in rooms, with bodies, over time.
The principles
this work is built on
If you recognise yourself in any of this — we should talk.
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